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Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Your Personal Success Guide
How are you doing?
By that I mean, how well are you performing?
Is there a difference between what you want and what you have?
At this time, you are now a few days into the month of April...
You have had over 90 days to build momentum...to make some
progress...to achieve some goals...
What's the score?
Why bother considering these questions?
Because as the second quarter begins, the timing is PERFECT for a
personal 3000-mile performance check-up.
Your year-to-date results are now in the record books...
Have you set any new records?
Have you achieved a personal best?
Are you on pace for having the best year of your life?
If you have the same results during the second quarter of the
year would you be happier, healthier and wealthier?
Take a good, close look at your current performance and embrace the reality that if you want to get better results during the second quarter of the year, you must engage in better activities than you have in the first quarter of the year.
Danger awaits those who wait for the once-a-year performance
review.
Right now, yes, right this very second - you are in one of three
positions as far as your 2010 goals are concerned:
Above Target: You have exceeded expectations of what you set out to accomplish.
On Target: You have met expectations of what you set out to
accomplish.
Below Target: You have fallen short of expectations of what you set out to accomplish.
Under performance must be viewed as UNACCEPTABLE.
If this is the case, ask yourself this question...
"What am I going to do differently starting today to get myself
back on target?"
IT'S TIME FOR A TUNE UP
As you are well aware, a 3000-mile checkup is the best thing you
can do to preserve the health, value and reliability of your
automobile.
It's a complete preventative maintenance program that takes only a few minutes and it meets your vehicle warranty requirements.
Take your automobile to any neighborhood garage and for just a few dollars you will have an insurance policy on long-term peak
performance, thus maximizing the value of your investment.
Here are just a few things that you will receive:
- Replace oil
- Replace oil filter
- Inspect brake fluid and antifreeze/coolant levels
- Check and top off vital all fluids
- Inspect air filtration system, wiper blades and lights
- Check condition of belts
- Vacuum interior floors
- Clean exterior windows
- Lubricate chassis
- Set tires to the proper level
Goals and plans are the same in many ways. When new, you delight in the excitement, the newness, the discovery and the passion of achievement.
But, like a car, goals and plans need CONSISTENT upkeep and
maintenance to stay running at peak performance, thus maximizing the value of your investment.
Unfortunately, too many people are more attentive to the
maintenance of their cars than to the maintenance of their lives.
And, far too many people decide to quit, throw in the towel and
hide when their performance starts running rough.
Cars come with a maintenance schedule. Life does not!
There isn't a manual in the glove box of our lives that tells us
when or how to inspect performance, take stock of our lives, invest time for optimal performance, or change a habit or strategy
completely.
And there isn't a troubleshooting checklist to refer to when the
performance engine starts misfiring.
Until now - that is!
Here are some symptoms that your life, business or relationship may need a check-up:
1. Engine Misfires
Your life is not firing on all cylinders and therefore misfires or
worse yet backfires. This is often expressed in value conflicts
where our words and behaviors are often not aligned. The end result is that your performance is short-lived and most likely
short-circuited.
Always remember, before values can be enforced, supported and
validated, they must first be defined, confirmed and committed too.
2. Engine Runs On After Being Turned Off
This occurs when you set a goal, take action and get little or no
associated results. Then for some strange reason, you continually
repeat the same actions; continually repeat the same results, all
the while expecting a different outcome.
Heed this lesson; a poor plan perfectly and consistently executed
is still a poor plan. If your current actions are not delivering
the results you desire, you must send out a CEASE and DESIST order and completely review the goal and plans.
3. Out of Gas
Regardless of cost, an automobile only has value to the extent that it contains fuel - gasoline. The same principle applies to any goal setting initiative, where the fuel level is low or non-existent, in this case motivation; the level of progress is marginal.
The winning attitude is one of movement and progress, therefore
remind yourself of the key reasons WHY you set this goal in the
first place.
As the cliché goes, "the best defense is a good offense." Go
forward... be aggressive. Don't give your fears or competition a
chance to pin you down and choke off your motivational oxygen.
Trepidation and loss of confidence come with a defensive posture.
Attack the problem, attack the market, attack the competition, and you are preceding positively. Fear will melt and confidence will rise.
4. Engine Overheats
When things don't go your way, you become impatient, frustrated and angry. This burning of emotional energy causes damage to results as performance crumbles in a climate of hostility.
5. Warning Lights Go On
Often times we are given clues, hints and gut intuitive feelings about when something is going wrong. If you choose not to pay attention to these small hints, chances are you are in need of a check up as intuitive muscle is a key skill you must deploy and obey.
6. High Beams Are Non-Functioning
When your high beams are non-functioning your vision is greatly impaired thus inhibiting progress.
A vision is a way of seeing or conceiving what you want to create
or achieve. The single most important thing to have before you do any planning is a vision. How can you plan without knowing what you envision for your life? It would be like starting a trip without first determining your destination, purpose of the trip, and what you expect to do when you get there.
7. Transmission Stuck In Neutral
Sometimes despite our best efforts the engine is running, initiative is being taken and energy is being expended but you're not making any progress.
This is a sign that you may have impotent goals or that you are trying to achieve someone else's goals, other than your own.
We quickly take our cars to a professional mechanic, but when we realize that our lives or businesses aren't hitting on all cylinders, we often try to fix the problem ourselves.
If any of these symptoms describe your life or performance, you probably could use a personal 3000-mile performance check-up from a professional specially trained to work with high achievement.
To help you in that process I have put together a very effective system and it's available to you at 50% for the next few days.
Visit http://tinyurl.com/y8ou28u and regardless of the economy, let me show you how to position yourself for having the best year of your life.
If you want your car to run like a well-oiled machine, take it in for a checkup every 3000 miles.
And if you want you life to run smoothly and enjoy the sweetness of success than stop right now and give yourself a personal 3000-mile performance check-up.
You will have an insurance policy on long-term peak performance, thus maximizing the value and quality of your life.
Click here to learn how http://tinyurl.com/y8ou28u
By that I mean, how well are you performing?
Is there a difference between what you want and what you have?
At this time, you are now a few days into the month of April...
You have had over 90 days to build momentum...to make some
progress...to achieve some goals...
What's the score?
Why bother considering these questions?
Because as the second quarter begins, the timing is PERFECT for a
personal 3000-mile performance check-up.
Your year-to-date results are now in the record books...
Have you set any new records?
Have you achieved a personal best?
Are you on pace for having the best year of your life?
If you have the same results during the second quarter of the
year would you be happier, healthier and wealthier?
Take a good, close look at your current performance and embrace the reality that if you want to get better results during the second quarter of the year, you must engage in better activities than you have in the first quarter of the year.
Danger awaits those who wait for the once-a-year performance
review.
Right now, yes, right this very second - you are in one of three
positions as far as your 2010 goals are concerned:
Above Target: You have exceeded expectations of what you set out to accomplish.
On Target: You have met expectations of what you set out to
accomplish.
Below Target: You have fallen short of expectations of what you set out to accomplish.
Under performance must be viewed as UNACCEPTABLE.
If this is the case, ask yourself this question...
"What am I going to do differently starting today to get myself
back on target?"
IT'S TIME FOR A TUNE UP
As you are well aware, a 3000-mile checkup is the best thing you
can do to preserve the health, value and reliability of your
automobile.
It's a complete preventative maintenance program that takes only a few minutes and it meets your vehicle warranty requirements.
Take your automobile to any neighborhood garage and for just a few dollars you will have an insurance policy on long-term peak
performance, thus maximizing the value of your investment.
Here are just a few things that you will receive:
- Replace oil
- Replace oil filter
- Inspect brake fluid and antifreeze/coolant levels
- Check and top off vital all fluids
- Inspect air filtration system, wiper blades and lights
- Check condition of belts
- Vacuum interior floors
- Clean exterior windows
- Lubricate chassis
- Set tires to the proper level
Goals and plans are the same in many ways. When new, you delight in the excitement, the newness, the discovery and the passion of achievement.
But, like a car, goals and plans need CONSISTENT upkeep and
maintenance to stay running at peak performance, thus maximizing the value of your investment.
Unfortunately, too many people are more attentive to the
maintenance of their cars than to the maintenance of their lives.
And, far too many people decide to quit, throw in the towel and
hide when their performance starts running rough.
Cars come with a maintenance schedule. Life does not!
There isn't a manual in the glove box of our lives that tells us
when or how to inspect performance, take stock of our lives, invest time for optimal performance, or change a habit or strategy
completely.
And there isn't a troubleshooting checklist to refer to when the
performance engine starts misfiring.
Until now - that is!
Here are some symptoms that your life, business or relationship may need a check-up:
1. Engine Misfires
Your life is not firing on all cylinders and therefore misfires or
worse yet backfires. This is often expressed in value conflicts
where our words and behaviors are often not aligned. The end result is that your performance is short-lived and most likely
short-circuited.
Always remember, before values can be enforced, supported and
validated, they must first be defined, confirmed and committed too.
2. Engine Runs On After Being Turned Off
This occurs when you set a goal, take action and get little or no
associated results. Then for some strange reason, you continually
repeat the same actions; continually repeat the same results, all
the while expecting a different outcome.
Heed this lesson; a poor plan perfectly and consistently executed
is still a poor plan. If your current actions are not delivering
the results you desire, you must send out a CEASE and DESIST order and completely review the goal and plans.
3. Out of Gas
Regardless of cost, an automobile only has value to the extent that it contains fuel - gasoline. The same principle applies to any goal setting initiative, where the fuel level is low or non-existent, in this case motivation; the level of progress is marginal.
The winning attitude is one of movement and progress, therefore
remind yourself of the key reasons WHY you set this goal in the
first place.
As the cliché goes, "the best defense is a good offense." Go
forward... be aggressive. Don't give your fears or competition a
chance to pin you down and choke off your motivational oxygen.
Trepidation and loss of confidence come with a defensive posture.
Attack the problem, attack the market, attack the competition, and you are preceding positively. Fear will melt and confidence will rise.
4. Engine Overheats
When things don't go your way, you become impatient, frustrated and angry. This burning of emotional energy causes damage to results as performance crumbles in a climate of hostility.
5. Warning Lights Go On
Often times we are given clues, hints and gut intuitive feelings about when something is going wrong. If you choose not to pay attention to these small hints, chances are you are in need of a check up as intuitive muscle is a key skill you must deploy and obey.
6. High Beams Are Non-Functioning
When your high beams are non-functioning your vision is greatly impaired thus inhibiting progress.
A vision is a way of seeing or conceiving what you want to create
or achieve. The single most important thing to have before you do any planning is a vision. How can you plan without knowing what you envision for your life? It would be like starting a trip without first determining your destination, purpose of the trip, and what you expect to do when you get there.
7. Transmission Stuck In Neutral
Sometimes despite our best efforts the engine is running, initiative is being taken and energy is being expended but you're not making any progress.
This is a sign that you may have impotent goals or that you are trying to achieve someone else's goals, other than your own.
We quickly take our cars to a professional mechanic, but when we realize that our lives or businesses aren't hitting on all cylinders, we often try to fix the problem ourselves.
If any of these symptoms describe your life or performance, you probably could use a personal 3000-mile performance check-up from a professional specially trained to work with high achievement.
To help you in that process I have put together a very effective system and it's available to you at 50% for the next few days.
Visit http://tinyurl.com/y8ou28u and regardless of the economy, let me show you how to position yourself for having the best year of your life.
If you want your car to run like a well-oiled machine, take it in for a checkup every 3000 miles.
And if you want you life to run smoothly and enjoy the sweetness of success than stop right now and give yourself a personal 3000-mile performance check-up.
You will have an insurance policy on long-term peak performance, thus maximizing the value and quality of your life.
Click here to learn how http://tinyurl.com/y8ou28u
Thursday, April 1, 2010
The Success Solution: How You May be Preventing Your Own Success
Recently I worked with a client who found himself in a couple of situations many of us have either experienced, or fear experiencing. He called me, feeling down, frustrated and anxious about his future. In the same week, he was laid off at work and experienced the end of a six-year relationship. Ouch!
As we explored his situation, we discovered a couple of things. First, he really didn’t like his job and it was not leading him towards the financial success he desired. And second, the relationship that ended was an unhappy one for quite some time. Yet, he wanted to hold on to both of them and felt upset over what had occurred.
You see, many of us find ourselves in similar situations in life. We have something that isn’t quite what we want, but if we were to lose it great fear and insecurity arises.
Why?
There are two forces that drive your life and prevent you from really having what you desire: Attachments and aversions.
We become attached to what is comfortable for us; things that give us a false sense of having what we want; things that temporarily make us feel better for brief moments only to leave us feeling rotten later. These attachments can include fulfilling jobs, relationships that lack passion, bad habits such as smoking or overeating, and thousands of other possibilities.
Our attachments often prevent us from making the space in our life to have what we really desire. If life is a buffet, we have our plates full of food we don’t really like meaning there isn’t any room for dessert.
Hanging on to that fulfilling job for its false sense of security prevented this man from finding work he feels excited about doing – or starting a business of his own. His attachment to the mediocre relationship prevented him from exploring new possibilities and meeting someone who really loved him, and someone he really loved in turn.
We he saw this for himself, his energy took a dramatic turn in the positive direction. He saw new opportunity in his life instead of fear and loss. This one simple realization could likely change the course of his entire life.
We also have aversions. These are the things in life that feel uncomfortable to us. It could be making an important phone call, or asking out someone we are really attracted to, or getting in front of a room and sharing our brilliance. Aversions prevent us from moving forward, taking action and manifesting what we desire. Aversions prevent you from acting on your immense potential.
What are attachments and aversions and how can we overcome them?
Attachments and aversions are nothing more than feelings. Many of us say “I am frustrated”, but the truth is “I feel frustrated”. I am having a feeling; I am not the feeling.
There is a wonderful technique called the Sedona Method that teaches a simple set of techniques that allow us to effortlessly “let go” of any unwanted thought or feeling – any attachment or aversion. With these blocks removed, you will feel more confidence, more at ease and more willing to take the bold actions that produce success.
We can fight and struggle and force our way to success. We really can. I know. I have done it. But ultimately it is a hard, stressful, frustrating journey. I think you know what I mean.
Or we can learn to easily overcome the resistance that creates a flow to life. When we overcome our attachments and aversions, we become truly free to be, do and have whatever we desire. It’s easy. It really is.
I encourage you to learn more about any program that teaches you to “let go”. It is the most powerful personal development tool I have ever learned. My favorite program on the market is the Sedona Method course – the original and still the best program of its kind. The link below offers a free newsletter to learn more, and you can also order a free introductory tape that includes a demonstration of one of the basic releasing techniques they teach. I encourage you to experience this program for yourself and discover the exhilarating possibility of true freedom from your attachments and aversions.
Wishing you all the success and abundance you can allow into your life,
John R. Barker
To learn more about the Sedona Method Program, click here: http://tinyurl.com/ybwzltn
John R. Barker is a personal success coach, author and facilitator of The Amazing Momentum Generator – a 35 day program for creating powerful results that last a lifetime. To learn more about John, see http://tinyurl.com/y9e2pos
As we explored his situation, we discovered a couple of things. First, he really didn’t like his job and it was not leading him towards the financial success he desired. And second, the relationship that ended was an unhappy one for quite some time. Yet, he wanted to hold on to both of them and felt upset over what had occurred.
You see, many of us find ourselves in similar situations in life. We have something that isn’t quite what we want, but if we were to lose it great fear and insecurity arises.
Why?
There are two forces that drive your life and prevent you from really having what you desire: Attachments and aversions.
We become attached to what is comfortable for us; things that give us a false sense of having what we want; things that temporarily make us feel better for brief moments only to leave us feeling rotten later. These attachments can include fulfilling jobs, relationships that lack passion, bad habits such as smoking or overeating, and thousands of other possibilities.
Our attachments often prevent us from making the space in our life to have what we really desire. If life is a buffet, we have our plates full of food we don’t really like meaning there isn’t any room for dessert.
Hanging on to that fulfilling job for its false sense of security prevented this man from finding work he feels excited about doing – or starting a business of his own. His attachment to the mediocre relationship prevented him from exploring new possibilities and meeting someone who really loved him, and someone he really loved in turn.
We he saw this for himself, his energy took a dramatic turn in the positive direction. He saw new opportunity in his life instead of fear and loss. This one simple realization could likely change the course of his entire life.
We also have aversions. These are the things in life that feel uncomfortable to us. It could be making an important phone call, or asking out someone we are really attracted to, or getting in front of a room and sharing our brilliance. Aversions prevent us from moving forward, taking action and manifesting what we desire. Aversions prevent you from acting on your immense potential.
What are attachments and aversions and how can we overcome them?
Attachments and aversions are nothing more than feelings. Many of us say “I am frustrated”, but the truth is “I feel frustrated”. I am having a feeling; I am not the feeling.
There is a wonderful technique called the Sedona Method that teaches a simple set of techniques that allow us to effortlessly “let go” of any unwanted thought or feeling – any attachment or aversion. With these blocks removed, you will feel more confidence, more at ease and more willing to take the bold actions that produce success.
We can fight and struggle and force our way to success. We really can. I know. I have done it. But ultimately it is a hard, stressful, frustrating journey. I think you know what I mean.
Or we can learn to easily overcome the resistance that creates a flow to life. When we overcome our attachments and aversions, we become truly free to be, do and have whatever we desire. It’s easy. It really is.
I encourage you to learn more about any program that teaches you to “let go”. It is the most powerful personal development tool I have ever learned. My favorite program on the market is the Sedona Method course – the original and still the best program of its kind. The link below offers a free newsletter to learn more, and you can also order a free introductory tape that includes a demonstration of one of the basic releasing techniques they teach. I encourage you to experience this program for yourself and discover the exhilarating possibility of true freedom from your attachments and aversions.
Wishing you all the success and abundance you can allow into your life,
John R. Barker
To learn more about the Sedona Method Program, click here: http://tinyurl.com/ybwzltn
John R. Barker is a personal success coach, author and facilitator of The Amazing Momentum Generator – a 35 day program for creating powerful results that last a lifetime. To learn more about John, see http://tinyurl.com/y9e2pos
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